Living, Dying, Rising

Introduction to Worship:

Good morning and welcome to worship at Calvary. 

I am Marci Glass, Pastor and head of staff. Whether you’re here for the first time or whether you are here every week, I deeply believe that it is God who has invited you here today, and it is my privilege to welcome you as a guest in this place. In the music, in the liturgy, in the prayers, in the silence, I pray you will find what your soul needs this morning.

When Victor saw my sermon title, he asked if I was familiar with the work of Christian Educator Maria Harris, who used the phrase “living, dying, and rising”, and taught that the work of Christian Education is to always be embodying the life, death and resurrection of Jesus in our lives of faith. I had read her work, many many years ago, and was glad for the reminder. Clearly I had internalized what she said, even if I’d forgotten who said it, because it showed up in my sermon title. 

Our work as a congregation, and our work as Christians in the world is to be asking the questions: What among us is living? What is dying? What is rising?

I think our culture is better at talking about what is living than we are talking about death or what is dying. As followers of Jesus, who lived, who died, who rose again, we cannot ignore the dying part. It is part of who we are as human beings. 

We entered the season of Lent this past Wednesday, as we marked ourselves with ashes, reminding ourselves that from dust we come and to dust we will return. Dying is a part of our living. May we notice our aversion to death, and be curious about why that is as we journey through lent. Because our lives consist of it all. This poem by Rumi illustrates it. 

The Guest House

By Jelaluddin Rumi

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whatever comes.
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

 

Scripture: John 11:1-53

Sermon: 

Jesus’ friend, one he loved, Lazarus, was dead. He was buried. He was in the tomb 4 days, and every good Jew knew that the soul never stayed with the body after 3 days. So he was dead, dead, dead.

And Jesus arrives on the scene.

Martha rushes to him and said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that God will give you whatever you ask of him.”

She acknowledges that she can’t see any life in this situation, but she also seems to acknowledge a willingness to rely on God’s imagination instead of her own. “Even now, I know that God will give you whatever you ask of him.”

Their conversation continues, and it is clear that Martha can imagine some of the good news—resurrection of the dead and eternal life. That good news is not for NOW. That good news is for the future.
“I know he will rise again on the last day,” she tells Jesus.

Mary also comes to Jesus and she makes the same statement of faith. She too, believes in Jesus’ eventual power of death, of good news for some point in the future. Jesus has different words for her.

And it is clear, when they get to the tomb and Jesus tells them to roll away the stone, Mary and Martha aren’t ready for resurrection and new life quite yet. Eminently practical Martha, with no need of imagination says, “Lord, minor detail here, if I may. But already there is a stench because he has been dead four days.”

Yes, Martha. Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?

And so they roll away the stone, choosing to disregard everything they knew to be true about the way the world works, choosing to trust that God could see life where they only could see death. It must have seemed more like a zombie apocalypse than a moment of good news, though, waiting to see what Jesus was going to do with an open tomb.

“Lazarus! Come out!”

And Lazarus hears the voice of the shepherd, and gets up from his tomb and walks out into the light, still wrapped in his grave clothes.

While this is a story about Mary and Martha and Lazarus, it has some other important actors in it too. Mary and Martha are not alone in their grief. The community has gathered with them. And when Mary goes to see Jesus, the women go with her. Everyone’s grief is different, and personal. But it isn’t really private. These women don’t say anything, and they don’t offer platitudes. They stand with their friend who is in pain, so she’s not alone. And they cry with her as she and Jesus cry.

And there are people at the tomb.

Jesus commands the crowd to “Unbind him”! Jesus is the one who calls Lazarus to life. But the crowd has work to do.

“Unbind him.”

I don’t know how comfortable you would be with this task, but no law abiding Jew would touch a dead body casually. And I suspect they were all trying to figure out how the law applied to formerly dead bodies.

But again, like Mary and Martha, they trust in the voice of their shepherd.

And they unbind Lazarus, freeing him of the trappings of death.

This story has reminded me why we gather as the church.

We could be doing lots of other things today. Why do we take time out of our routines to gather together with other people to worship, to gather as church? I could talk for hours about the reasons we worship. But I want us to think about why we gather together in community.

Because community is messy and complicated. And as often as we love each other, or almost as often as we love each other, we hurt each other. We support each other in life, in death, and also when new life happens.

I was with some new members last night and they were talking about this aspect of community. Today it feels like we’re all so separated in our lives that it can be difficult to reach into someone else’s life to offer help, it can be a struggle to know our neighbors. I just moved to a new condo and I try to say hello to everyone in the hallway, but only a few people have said more than“hello” back. A few have stopped and introduced themselves and asked, “Did you just move in to the building? Welcome!” I want to know my neighbors. I also don’t want to freak them out by knocking on their door to introduce myself. 

But we need people to stand with us, yes in our grief as Mary and Martha’s friends did, but also when we need to borrow a cup of sugar, or need a meal after we’ve had surgery. We need community that is willing to ask “do you need help?” when we see a person struggling with too many bags. 

One of the reminders of the Lazarus story is that while yes, there is eternal life and resurrection at some point in the future, we are reminded to proclaim that there is also NEW LIFE right NOW. 

Our faith compels us to unbind people and call them into life today. 

To let go of their belief that death, war, cruelty, and corruption have the last word. We need to unbind people so they can work to rid their lives of addictions and despair. We need to unbind people who have been hurt by religion so they can truly know and believe that they are beloved children of God, deserving of new life today.

New life isn’t always easy.

The community is called to the somewhat indelicate task of unshrouding the formerly dead Lazarus, so that he can return to life. How well do we do with that task? It is great to talk about new life, but how do we do when formerly dead Lazarii, Lazaruses (is that the plural?) show up in our midst? How well do we obey the command to unbind them, ushering them back into life? Or do we, instead, push them back inside the tombs?

I know we’d never admit to doing that. But consider addiction. When someone climbs out of the tomb of addiction, it is often the people who love them the most who have trouble with their new life. We have learned how to deal with the death of addiction. Sometimes it is life on the other side of it that makes us the most uncomfortable.

Or maybe there are people we’d really like to see buried in tombs, if that is what it would take for them to stop harming people. Are we open to God calling them to new life?

And this new life isn’t even easy for the formerly dead Lazarus.

How do you walk back into life once you’ve comfortably settled in a tomb? What must it have been like for him, who once was certain that there was no future for him, to discover that there was, indeed, a future with hope? Would people invite formerly dead people over for dinner? How would he fit in the community?

And his very life was testimony to the power of Jesus Christ, he was another sign pointing to Jesus, which also made Lazarus unpopular with the religious leaders. When your life is testimony to the Good News you’ve received, things can be risky.

We are now in the season of Lent, which is a time of preparation for Easter. You’d think that maybe after experiencing the resurrection of Easter for over 2,000 years now, Christians would be better prepared for it. Somehow it still seems a shock.

The rhythm of living, dying, and rising is the story of our faith, and the rhythm of our lives. We worship a man who rose from the dead. After he had lived. And after he died.

If we pretend death isn’t necessary, and try to skip from living to rising, we deny the cycle of life and death, and we hang on to what God calls us to let go of. 

If we pretend the messiness of life in community isn’t necessary, the living, living, living together through pain and joy, we deny the promise of faith.

If we pretend resurrection isn’t possible, we deny the promise of faith and will be unable to see miracles in our midst.

 As I mentioned during the introduction at the start of worship, our work as a congregation, and our work as Christians in the world is to be asking the questions: What is living? What is dying? What is rising?

It may be easier for us to see what is living. We can feel where the energy is here at church. 

But what do we need to let die? What do we need to go ahead and put in a tomb, with faith that God will make new life emerge in ways we cannot imagine? Because for us to be able to do well what God is calling us to do, we can’t also just keep doing all the things we have always done. 

This is the messy and difficult part of being church. And your church leaders are in the middle of asking these questions of our programs and ministries. And it is hard. Because we love all the things we do. But the truth is, your staff is tired. Exhausted, really. One of the ways we managed the pastoral transition before I arrived and the post-covid return was to keep trying new things to see what works. But the problem with that is we are doing too many things, and not all of them are tied to our vision.  We cannot continue to manage all the programs we are currently managing. Some ministries either need to end, or need to really change and be led by members of the congregation, and not by the staff. And it will be hard because we like all the programs we have. 

When we invite you to join a ministry team, it is not a vague invitation. It is a specific way for you to participate in the living, dying, and rising of Calvary. What are the specific things you can do? Maybe it is to greet and welcome people when they come to worship or events. Maybe you’re a cookie baker and want to bring treats to coffee hour. Maybe you can coordinate serving teams that feed people at one of our Matthew 25 partners. Maybe you want to support children or youth ministry. One of our recent new members has volunteered to be a wedding coordinator. And now that she’s helping me with that, I realize how much of that work I was having to do. And it is a huge relief for me. 

What do we need to unbind? What are the things we thought for sure we had lost forever, that God is offering back to us in new ways? 

It is our work as a church to look for living, dying, and rising. 

I think it is also our work in the world. Think about the stories you heard in the news this past week, of corruption, abuse, and cruelty that need to be put in a tomb because the stench of their rot is hurting all of us. Think about the people and power systems that prop up these corpses of cruelty, telling us it is what life should be. 

That isn’t living, my friends. The stench of death is all around it. 

And think about Lazarus again. When he died, it was correct for his loved ones to put him in a tomb. Mary and Martha were correct to bury him. Even with a belief in resurrection, they could not resurrect their brother. Only God can do that. What is living, we need to support. What is dying, we need to let die. No matter how much we love. Acknowledging death is not a failure of love, it is the courageous embodiment of it. 

What in our society do we need to help live and what do we need to let die? We don’t get to choose what resurrection and rising looks like and we do not know God’s timetable for it. We only know resurrection only happens after death. 

We cannot resurrect the dead, but we are the ones, once God has called people by name, who have to be ready to unbind people from the wounds of their pasts. We are the ones who have to be ready to unbind people from the sins of their past behavior. Because new life has to be for us all. Can we be a community that walks with people out of their tombs and into the new life God is, even now, preparing?

Lent prepares us, again and again, to be Easter people, those who are looking for resurrection and trust God may be imagining new life where we see only death. And when we see people who are called to new life, as Lazarus was, we are called to unbind them, bringing them into new life that they can’t even imagine, and maybe we can’t imagine, as they take those first steps out of the tomb.  Martha says to Jesus: ‘But even now I know that God will give you whatever you ask of him.’ May that be our prayer too. May we have hearts strong enough to break open with grief when death occurs, and imaginations strong enough to be on the lookout for the new life God is creating.

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